REVIEW OF HARMS OTHER THAN SEXUAL
The Review of Harms Other Than Sexual has the same format as the Resentment Inventory, with five columns.
Column One: Who did I hurt?
Column Two: What did I do, or not do, say or not say? (Examples include: betray, lie, steal, cheat, revenge, manipulate, control, jealous, unforgiving, put people down, brake promises, withhold, irresponsible, engulfing, stifling, distant, etc.).
Column Three: Which part of me caused me to behave in this way? (Examples include: Ego, sex instinct, social instinct, etc.)
Column Four: How did my actions affect them? (Examples include: Jealousy, rage, suspicion, bitterness, pain, fear, agony, etc.) What would have been the ideal response? (Examples include: truth-telling, consideration, self-control, fairness, modulate impulses, etc.).
Column Five: Which Character Defect played a role here? (Examples include: Selfish, dishonest, inconsiderate, self-seeking, frightened, impulsive, compulsive, stubborn, poor decision-making, etc.).