If you feel damaged by a toxic relationship, as though you no longer know yourself, or even have a self…
If your last breakup left you feeling hopeless about your future…
If you feel like you haven’t fully recovered, even if your relationship ended many years ago…
Then you may have been harmed by a partner who has some of the pathological traits of narcissism, borderline or antisocial personality disorder or other damaging psychopathology.
SurviveTransformSoar.com takes a positive, proactive approach to helping you regain your self and your sense of possibility. We can:
1. Support you through the pain of the early withdrawal symptoms
2. Show you how to care for yourself in a healing chrysalis (cocoon)
3. Guide you to flourish in a new life that is even better than you had before (BTB4™)
My name is Dawn Aegle and I am glad you have found your way to SurviveTransformSoar.com. Our inbox magazine experts and I look forward to being part of your support team as you heal and grow from the trauma of a toxic relationship.
Because survival is not enough…
Will Your Toxic Relationship Make You A Wounded Healer?
Issue #63 | May 25, 2018
By Alex Myles
Note from Dawn:
Will your toxic relationship experience become your power and perhaps the greatest gift you give to yourself, others and the world? I know that's a big statement, but this issue addresses why that could happen.
This week’s article is a little different because on the surface it appears to be about astrology, but ‘Chiron’ doesn’t have to be a planet--it can be anyone or anything that prompts us to embrace our own growth. If you are not a fan of astrology, when Chiron is mentioned, just substitute ‘a person or experience that is here to be a catalyst.’
As you recover and Soar in Stage 3, you will likely become ‘The Wounded Healer’ to others.
Chiron As Archetype and Wounded Healer
On April 18, 2018, the dwarf planet Chiron, known as the “wounded healer” moved into the constellation Aries for the first time since 1968, and remains in that zodiac sign until April 14, 2027.
Chiron represents tenderness, vulnerability, strength and compassion, and its energy digs straight into our innermost aches and pains.
Carl Jung coined the term “wounded healer” to describe someone who has healed a significant wound, gathered knowledge from past painful encounters and used what they learned to enhance the healing of others.
When we have experienced a situation firsthand and have recovered, we can then use the wisdom we’ve gained to intimately understand and support others who are going through a similar crisis.
The Healers Are Capable of Empathy
When we are gifted with empathy, we empathize more intensely with those who are facing struggles similar to the ones we have gone through. This is one reason people who have been wounded are magnetized toward those who are still in emotional, ... Read More